Ten Not So Obvious Steps To Marketing Success

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I’m not a big “list” person (even though lists are known to be a blogging best practice).  But this past week I found myself swimming in ideas.  Ideas I wanted to share.  So today I am purposefully breaking my “one idea – one message” rule.  Here are some interesting thoughts worth pondering.

1) Be Mindful of “The Big Three”

If you do nothing else, keep these three market realities at the forefront of your mind.  They will have a positive or negative impact on your business and career depending on how well you understand and utilize them.

– Market Fragmentation is your window of opportunity. Gatekeepers are disappearing all over the place, leaving you with possibilities not available ten years ago.  Don’t miss the boat!

– The “old model” of work is dying out. State agencies and large behavioral health care systems are a great example of this shift.  What was once a safe and comfortable path is now a very risky proposition.

– Traditional forms of advertising do not have the reach and influence they have had in the past. Markets are about conversations and connecting, they are not about self-serving advertisements.  You will need to make a real connection to break through the “information clutter”.

2) Approach Everything as a Creative Opportunity

For me personally, it starts with finding that place where there is no separation between “life” and “work”.  Find this and you will begin to see opportunity where it may never have existed before.  It’s how I uncover marketing lessons for my company when my 6-year old son tells me about a 30-year old Pop Rocks myth (a candy he has never even seen), or when I learn about mobile Korean Taco’s in Los Angeles, or when I discover how a man named Dick Fosbury revolutionized the high jump.

When you find something you are passionate about, focus relentlessly on it.  Spend time learning and growing within that space.

3) Understand that “Real Artists Ship”

I first heard this from Seth Godin’s book, Linchpin.  It was a statement made by the founder of Apple, Steve Jobs, to one of his engineers.  The engineer was holding up production of a new product because he wasn’t 100% happy with a particular piece of computer code.  The take away – don’t become paralyzed trying to achieve perfection.

And don’t search for that one otherworldly idea, that one concept you feel is the epitome of creativity.  What use is the idea if it lies well beyond the realm of possibility?  Search the edges, that fine line between what is and what could be.  Then dive in, produce something and share it with others.  Avoid the temptation to be “perfect”.  Get yourself into action mode, put yourself out there, and be a part of that creative energy.  It will serve you well, and will bring you to a place where things expected and unexpected can happen.

4) Let Go

Sometimes, opportunity arises when you choose to let go.  It may be a belief or idea you have been holding onto for years, something you protect with all your might.  What would happen if you set it free?

You don’t have to take that lowly job so you can “pay your dues”.  You don’t need to work harder at what you are doing.  You don’t have to hold onto your belief that writing a novel is frivolous and unrealistic.

If something isn’t working, and you want to define things on your own terms, try giving it up and see what happens.

5) Sometimes You Should Try the Lunch Special, Even When Others Say, “Yuck”

If you are exploring the edges of opportunity, chances are some of your ideas will be met with luke warm responses.  You may need to go it alone for a period of time. Don’t get discouraged.

It is often a good thing to be out there all alone, especially if you are looking to be first to market or if you have uncovered something that excites you.  For starters, it means there are fewer fish in the pond.

Furthermore, make peace with the fact that everybody is busy with their own lives.  Don’t expect a big pat on the back or standing ovation.  Don’t do something based on other people’s responses.  Do it for yourself.

6) Don’t Quit Your Day Job

It’s perfectly fine to dive right into something.  Many experts believe you must make that kind of commitment to succeed.  But I don’t believe it’s an all or nothing arrangement.  In fact, sometimes staying with your day job, while nurturing your passion, can be the smarter move.

Why? It helps keep that balance between day to day realities and aspirations.  I find it helps me be more creative and motivated.  In addition, your day job may also add a level of credibility and connection that might not exist should you jump ship right away.

7) Break Someone’s Guessing Machine and Then Fix It

If you’re looking to market your services more effectively, try thinking in terms of the unexpected.  You’ll earn more attention when you challenge what people have come to expect.  Find the unexpected implications of your message.  Make people a little uncomfortable and get them off balance by breaking the thought process and judgments we commonly use to make sense of a specific topic.

Offer material that seems perplexing, and then help bring clarity to the message.  You can use this approach in your elevator speech, in your advertisements, and in your service delivery model.

Why do I write about Spiderman and swimming lessons when I am trying to introduce a useful marketing concept?  I offer something unexpected as a way to surprise, engage and educate.

8)Watch Out For Resistance

“I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened.” – Mark Twain

There have been times when I’ve talked myself out of something, or when I couldn’t push myself through a critical period because I felt sorry for myself.  I found a million and one reasons why something would go terribly wrong.  I was stuck.

Find ways to give yourself permission to be bigger!

9) Be Giving:  It’s Your Number One Marketing Strategy!

“Inscribed on one of the six pillars in the Holocaust Memorial at Quincy Market in Boston are stories that speak of the cruelty and suffering in the camps. The sixth pillar presents a tale of a different sort, about a little girl named Ilse, a childhood friend of Guerda Weissman Kline, in Auschwitz. Guerda remembers that Isle, who was about six years old at the time, found one morning a single raspberry somewhere in the camp. Isle carried it all day long in a protected place in her pocket, and in the evening, her eyes shining with happiness, she presented it to her friend Guerda on a leaf. ‘Imagine a world,’ writes Guerda, ‘in which your entire possession is one raspberry, and you give it to your friend.’”  – The Art of Possibility, Zander & Zander

Make the shift from a scarcity model to one of generosity and possibility.  Give to others, and share in their prosperity.  Offer value without any expectation of something in return!  This strategy will multiply your power and influence by a factor of 100.  Besides, it’s the right thing to do!

10) If Someone Has to Ask for Clarification…You’ve Already Lost

One of the keys to success in business is eliminating barriers to buying.  Give people permission to take part in what you have to offer by providing solutions.

If I have to navigate through some convoluted messaging service to connect with you, if I need to talk about a sensitive situation with your secretary before I can get to you, or if I have to sit in an uncomfortable waiting room then you are NOT making it easy for me to buy your services.

Do you think you have it covered?  Why not ask someone to test the experience?  Have them visit your website, call your office, and schedule an appointment.  Better yet, have them come to your office and wait for the appointment.  Then listen to what they have to say about the overall experience.  You might receive some surprising and important feedback.



  1. Ulash Dunlap  May 11, 2010


    What wonderful advice!! Yes, letting go of perfectionism is hard but important. The feeling of being alone and people not understanding your work/website/product is daunting, nerve racking but in the long run is rewarding. I agree, don’t give up your day job. My day job keeps me grounded, motivated and inspired!! The best advice given to me (and as you have mentioned) is to not give up hope and believe in your project, the rest will follow (well one day, right?). Thanks again for your insight. It always helps, and keeps me inspired!


  2. Katherine Gordy Levine  May 11, 2010

    Number three is the one I am printing out and framing. I tell myself only surgeons and engineers need to practice perfection, but always find myself thinking of how this will make my products just a little better. Think it comes from being some what learning disabled and never certain I got it. Am making Good Enough my marketing motto.

    Thank you David.

  3. Kevin Bergen, MFT  May 11, 2010

    David, so well presented! These are the same ideals I learn from watching Stephanie Morales in her successful practice that addresses perinatal mood disorders in women. Your approach applies equally to every one of us. Thank you! –Kevin

  4. Jeffrey Nigro  May 12, 2010

    A-1 David; everything struck a chord…especially that last one. it all works out in the end or it doesn’t. AND that’s okay too.

  5. Janis Ellington  May 12, 2010

    Hi David,

    I really appreciate the unexpected introduction to your marketing concepts. Simple thinkers like me need a bit of an illustration at times! I have also completely embraced the marketing concept of helping others first and being patient for the payout. You taught me that a couple years ago and I’ve experienced the positive results on many levels, personally and professionally. I have always been a giving person but you gave me permission to use that in marketing as well. Thanks!!

  6. David  May 12, 2010

    Thanks everyone for all your comments! I learn a lot from people’s input.

    Ulash – I’m excited to see your vision come to fruition. Love what you are doing at

    Katherine – Number 3 is a big one for me as well. When I broke free from the need to be perfect the process and the adventure became a ton of fun!

    Kevin – I just looked at Stephanie’s website and think it is fantastic. Great design and lots of useful info to gain people’s attention. I also think she has a great niche. Folks can see her at:

    Jeffrey – I like the motto, “It all works out in the end or it doesn’t, and that’s okay.” Well put and it reminds me to have goals but be open to new possibilities and the unknown because life is full of unexpected tidbits.

    Janis – The giving concept has also produced great results for my organization as well. And the best part about it – it is a lot of fun supporting and helping others. Giving gives back!

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